If a professional builder is constructing the house, it is probably doable. If you are intending to build the house yourself and have never done it before, I doubt if it is achievable.
Some of the major items are as follows:
Find building lot with proper zoning
Get construction loan, very difficult if you have no experience.
If no city water and sewer, you must do perculation tests, do design of septic, get it approved, etc, etc, very time consuming,$$
Get building permit, may need architect drawings, $$$$
Design house, need arch drawings $$ time
Screen subcontractors.
Schedule subs, you are at their mercy, they will take care of repeat customers before you.
Monitor subs for quality work and adherance to drawings.
Get building inspections as required by local government
Here is an option for you. Look at Factory built houses. They are built at a factory and are delivered to your building lot within a month. A ranch type comes in two modules, a two story comes in four modules. A crane lifts the modules onto your foundation. The modules are complete inside. All cabinets, trim, electrical, drywall, carpet, etc is in place. They just need several days of work inside to patch drywall seams where sections meet and on the outside, the siding needs finished. Most companies allow individual variations on their designs. The Factory built dealer will take care of the permits, have the foundation built and the sections completed. It is a fast solution and very reasonable price.
Sometimes this type of house is called modular. Sometimes they are sold by mobile home dealers but by no stretch of the imagination are they a mobile home. If you go into a modular, you would think that it was stick built on site.